>>19020510It is natural to want to love and to be loved in return, but you will not make your boyfriend love you through your affections towards him. He must come around to loving you of his own free judgement, or the love will be too fragile to last.
I assume he is roughly your same age, yet he has been with, and had sex with, four women before you. This is a serious problem if you are the type to want to aim for marriage. His pair bonding is likely damaged and there is a higher chance of infidelity in later years assuming that he doesn't just up and leave you due to boredom after having sex with you for a while.
Ultimately, you must decide if the risk of him mishandling your feelings is worth it, or if you would rather go through a breakup and find someone that has more in common morally and emotionally.
As a man, I wouldn't marry a non-virgin woman, so keep that in mind as you move forward.
