>>4436904Also 30's oldfag here. A lot of what you say is true, but my problem is that I lack willpower when shown interest by 8+ thots. I'm pretty aesthetic too (not in a chad way, just tall and not fat with decent north European bone structure), so it happens reasonably regularly.
My last relationship:
>be with younger 8 qt who is fun but not waifu material>she isn't very intelligent and dare I say a bit dull>see her as a bit of fun before I settle>end up cheating with 9 thot who I have known for years and always had a thing for>gf never found out but relationship nosedived afterwards and we broke upCurrent relationship:
>with 7-7.5 'homely' as you put it girl who loves me>waifu material, she has good job and wants kids>mfw I still think about the 9 thot a lot, and would probably cheat again if it was offered.In conclusion, I think I'm the problem as I probably would never turn down a shag from an 8+ thot, regardless of how much I am happy in a secure relationship with a waifu type. Is this just primal instinct at work or am I an asshole?