>>10987179Not sure about society as a whole, but for me personally:
It's a bullshitting game, and this saps all the enjoyment out of it.
All the things I need to do in order to compete with the alpha Chad that was born into wealth and good genes fall into one of two categories:
>1. Self improvementThis takes time.
By the time this pays off, Chad has already fucked all the women and there is no more sense of intimacy or mutual exploration to be had.
>2. Try to compete with Chad in the present by acting confident, buying expensive clothes, etcThis is bullshitting.
It's just trying to win the image game, but without the substance to back it up.
This feels dissatisfying, and ruins any sense of enjoyment or fulfillment..
The result is that there just isn't really anything I can do for sex.
In some sense it's a mix of "incel" and "volcel", in that I could probably have sex if I "tried", but what counts as "trying" would just make me feel like a bullshitter, and would thus ruin it, so why bother.
