i feel like these question don't really matter all that much. it depends on how you define "chad"
some people say chad is a state of mind, to be truly masculine you must be caring and take responsibility.
if that's the case, i'm very far from that. I scuff at responsibility because I'm afraid of it, mostly because I need to work on getting up in the morning first, before I can take care of others. I have a job, but it's all I can manage
