>>14706423Naturally. A man can cut his losses very easily. It's not ideal, ideally we would pair-bond with a single mate for life, but we live in dark times. Lots of issues, young men do not have adequate fathers anymore. We must be that for our sons, so we have to fashion ourselves into it.
I spent 8 years on that lesson with my ex. I don't hate her. She was loyal to her brothers and dad, and to the state. She contradicted me frequently. She made fun of me.
Like I said, I was young and just didn't care. I dismissed her instead of asserting myself, as I was too self-absorbed with my pondering. In the end, she didn't respect me and she SHOULDN'T have.
It was a painful lesson. But job my woman is loyal to me entirely. We have the same vision for our kids, the same goals, and she believes in being submissive.
She is still a woman, shit tests are something they do. You shut them down, every time.
There is an entire flipside to all of this. The responsibility you have to BE those things. To provide, make her feel secure(not petty emotional shit), safe. You have to be better, all the time.
I quit drinking except on rare occasion. I sold my vidya. A man does not have time for selfish pursuits, and a woman will not respect a man who does.
It's tough, anon.
