>>16223313Have you tried not accepting the offer of a drink, and volunteering to pay for a round yourself? How do the conversations normally go? If they start with cheesy chat up lines, it might be best to just say "I'm not interested".
I can appreciate it must be difficult looking the way you do, but if an encounter I had went like this:
>Approach girl at bar>"She" reveals early on that he is male>OK, he knows I'm interested and he is too, offer to buy a drink>He accepts multiple drinksI would think that he's at least considering coming back to my room with me.
Maybe bars and clubs aren't the best place for someone who looks like you to find friends who happen to be male.
Was the lobster meat mashed up in the risotto, or did you have to break open the claws with a hammer?