>>17062967Let's go back, back to the 90's. The rock and roll music was popular, and so was being more alternative. Skating culture was cool, and so was being at concerts. Nowadays, people don't do those things anymore, but the people you are looking for DID do those things.
Make a list of the biggest cities, now make a list of the biggest music venues. Places where concerts are known to happen. Cross-reference the list of the biggest cities with the biggest music venues.
Those cities that have them, also have the rest of the alternative type of women. All of those women have grown up from the angry teens into women who are just wishing they are as happy as they were back when the 90's were around and the world was "cool"
They go to cafes, restaurants. They work at those places, some of them went to college and got jobs doing interesting things. Some of them might be still studying music, hoping to strike it big.
All you have to do is be outward. This is the really, really hard part. It might take you a year or two to get it down. I used to have agoraphobia and was scared of talking to people. I didn't think anyone would like me, but I had one really trusted friend who I knew cared about me and was my friend because he liked me. Finding someone like this is not hard, because often times they will find you.
A support structure is really important. You need someone to go to parties with, you need someone to rely on. Once you get that one person in your life they will gradually invite more and more people into your life.
Now we have to find Loona. Head to the cafes and whatnot, find the woman who looks the most appealing to you. Generally the Loonas are more 'sad' types of people, because they don't believe they are worth much (They are worth alot, actually.)
and you just have to ask one of them out. Be honest, because these types of women don't believe anyone is talking to them for them. Honesty is going to be a key in your relationship.
Any questions?
