>>20591832I went through this exact same process and revelation down to a T. I used to go insane trying to figure out what girls didn't like about me, because despite being tall and decent looking, I always swung below my weight class with girls while guys much shorter than me and less *anatomically gifted* pulled way better girls, which further damaged my self confidence. Eventually I just quit trying to solve the quantum physics puzzle and stopped caring, which of course made girls show random interest and walk up to me (this was initially confusing). I was still friendly to everyone, but no more forced smiles or trying to put on a clown show to get her attention, no more forced crackhead energy, just not caring about their up/down behavior. If I detected barattiness, I'd just give them blank cold stares and pretend I didn't know them and walk away, and lo and behold, they'd act all warm and bubbly the next time I'd see them
True godmode was when I took phenibut for a little while, which turns off social inhibition, and I had a few experiences I didn't think could happen outside of movies (its habit forming so be careful). Made me realize, female attraction is 100% behavioral. There may be a little spark involved with looks and shit, but the actual attraction is being low-inhib and not caring. That was the final missing piece for me.