>>2274648If you don't want problems to start, you need to use correct language. "Ditz" isn't the word you're looking for. That's just how it is. The definition of the word doesn't match the meaning you're trying to bring across.
Regardless of your intent, when you describe someone as a "ditz," you are describing them as an airhead, a dummy with no common sense, etc. and I wouldn't hesitate to slap you if I heard you in person describe my love as such. Why is this so hard for you to understand? Your intent doesn't change the meaning of the word.