>>4328637>>4329032>>4329772>>4331651>she chooses youThis advice has never been helpful ever.
There are absolutely steps one can take to have a higher chance of finding love.
It is true that one cannot FORCE himself into love with a character and that it needs to happen organically, but it can only happen when he has met her first.
Guy A who watches lots of anime and seeks out things with characters he finds attractive is a lot more likely to fall in love than guy B who just waits to be chosen forever.
If Guy X is in love with a character but he suddenly starts to suspect that she would dislike him if she existed in real life, he would have higher chances of strengthening his love for her again if he tried to convince himself otherwise than guy B who encounters the same line of thinking and accepts it as simple truth.
Guy C who taught himself to draw her, has made fumo-like stuffed toys of her and willingly spends hours of his life pursuing material where she appears is more likely to to only think about her (and thus love her for longer?) before getting distracted by some coombait character compared to guy D whose waifu influences his thoughts but not his decisions made in the real, tangible world.
If guy A is still fawning over other attractive girls in anime instead of hanging out with her, his love is more likely to stoop below it's true potential in comparison to
The response to these might be:
>If you need to remind and force yourself to do things with her and it doesn't just come naturally then your love is not real enoughThis argument proves the guy you're all replying to right. Only a small fraction of people are psychologically able to only think about one character forever without having to remind themselves or force a few activities that release less immediate dopamine than fapping to porn will.
It can still be considered true love even if effort is required. Otherwise damaged people with addictions will be gatekept from being in love.
