>>1854522I do feel a little guilty some times. My wife likes to pick on me some times about Teto and miku. I'm luck that some of the same reason's I gave above for loving Teto is the same of why I love my wife. I know it's kind of weird because they don't look alike(she has blue eyes and dark brown hair) but that spirit is similar. My wife likes to pick with people she likes (that includes me) and says weird things to get those wtf looks from people. I'm also lucky that she's into alot of fandom like manga, comics, and stuff so she's very understanding. We both know that we are soulmates and that no else would ever come between us. People ask me what it's like to be married and I tell them I can't tell you. Me and my wife are not typical married couple she's my best friend and we share most of the same hobbies. So theirs very little fighting over hobbies.
I heard some one say that the traits that we admire in wifus are the same that we subconsciously want to develop our self. So I'm think to cut you're self off completely would be bad for you. That it should be a matter of balance and moderation. Try not to hide being a Teto fan but don't flaunt it and remember to let your girlfriend she's the one for you. Girls don't like needy guys but they still like to be remind that you care. I understand your reality it's very much like my own.