>>2817020Let's break it down this way: If a total and complete stranger told you that the person you held most important and the person who literally created you was a dickbag and an asshole, would you be upset?
What Shinji said is more or less no different than him slandering Rei's father (since we know that Gendo considers Rei his proxy daughter). Shinji is a total stranger who just touched her breasts a few hours ago. I'd be pretty pissed off if the same happenned to me.