>>3211511The issue with this is it conflates what Asuka projects herself as with who she really is. It's a useful and safe position for you to take because then you can flipflop on whether Asuka is a deep character who is flawed and weak or a strong character who is willful and has personality.
Asuka's personality is she's an Eva pilot, the best Eva pilot. When this is threatened she's crushed to point of catatonia. This is obvious to even the casual viewer, but for the sake of winning internet arguments it's safer to ignore that and hide behind an ambiguous position where you can have it both ways.