>>3811731> I used to date someone like that, so I feel you. I later read some follow up study about borderline syndrome and it explained a lot about her behavior. Her constant need to please shadowed by the true feelings which were quite the opposite, for example. Hang in there, luckily there's decent people in the world still.Thanks anon, me and her almost dated but we weren’t really compatible cause of that. I am suuuuuper slow with relationship stuff and not a physical lover at all and she was the opposite of me. So I tried to be like her and it just felt all wrong so I ended it and we remained friends but like looking back she just was pretty mean and then continued to me rude and stuff then they try to bring me back in cause like I don’t really have many close friends.
But desu after having a couple weeks with having to talk to her it is way less stressful and I'm in a slightly better mood so I feel like I did the right thing.
I don’t like doing shit like that and I usually always try to talk stuff out and try to keep on good terms with people but I just didn’t want to deal with the same thing.
Like an example of what she would do, a person who I had a close but really complex relationship committed suicide and it really put me in a slump for a while and this is why we where starting to hang out with her more, but then I started to get more distant and not do things she liked and I day I lost my temper over a little thing I don’t even remember what. But then she got all hurt and we had a conversation and I explained to her what I was going through and she literally didn’t care, she said it wasn’t an excuse for me to have lost me temper, and that I hurt feelings.
It’s like I was literally mourning while trying to make her happy all the time and I got slightly mad at something stupid once cause I was going through a lot and she just blamed me, and I thought she was right at the time.
