>>3338725Believe it or not, but most misfortune IS a choice, or rather, living in misery due to misfortune is. Bad things happen, you can't fight that, but you are ultimately the one who lets those things affect yourself negatively.
Going a bit into pretentious /lit/ shit and/or religious faggotry right now, but here's one of my all-time favorite quotes:
>"The Devil's cause is never more in danger than when a human, no longer desiring, but still intending, to do Heaven's will, looks round upon a universe from which every trace of God seems to have vanished, and asks why he has been forsaken, but still obeys." -The Screwtape Letters, C.S. LewisYou're the one who decides to live in a state of misery, if you let your misfortune affect yourself negatively.
Don't let it affect yourself negatively! I know you can do it anon!