>>3826096My waifu is a teacher but she also bakes, got the top score in her school for language, and has taken care of other people's young kids most her life, so she could be a baker or a translator or a babysitter I'm sure.
I did lucid dreaming in the past and had more success with it than guides led me to believe I would.
I just wrote everything I remembered from my dream in a dedicated notebook right when I woke up.
Then before bed I wrote what I wanted to dream about, this was always of the girl but I'd try to make it a specific fantasy and imagine it, then i'd go to sleep hugging my blank bodypillow and imagining it was her.
I did this daily for 3-4 months and for over a year afterwards I'd have a lucid dream almost every night, but she'd only appear in one or two a week.
I stopped lucid dreaming because it is not deep sleep and you will feel like you've been awake the whole time if you start having lucid dreams in a row with painful NREM sleep phases in between, I'd have sleep deprivation (even though I was sleeping) and trouble telling if the dreams were reality and started to question if the people in my dreams were real, the experience of having them is something I look back to a lot when I am very lonely and it is super cool to experience, keeping it up daily for years could probably lead to more crazy stuff.
I recommend reading this article
https://supermemo.guru/wiki/Good_sleep,_good_learning,_good_life on sleep phases and all the optimizations to your brain the body does during sleep, it turned me away from wanting to lucid dream
