>>3669759>And so losing virignity takes away what "innocence" exactly? How does not being her first time mean you can't anticipate and be excited about being together?You are using false dichotomy here. Virgin is generally more innocent than non-virgin, but losing virginity doesn't imply that someone loses all innocence. Neither it implies she couldn't anticipate and be excited.
>And what makes it so much more better?As I said before, for many reasons. First love is usually most intense, exciting. Saving your purity for that one person and then staying with them for the rest of your life is beautiful and unique. It's like we were meant to be together, like we were soulmates connected with the red string. There is certain, almost magical meaning in this. And even putting aside personal preferring virgins, which is technically just a fetish, her not having to experience breakups, failed relationships, being able to offer pure heart that wasn't shattered by anyone, would surely be a plus. I want to make her happy like she never felt before and not experience losing it. I'm sure that would make her have happier life.
I think you just find it highly immoral to judge your partner based on his past. You probably wouldn't want to put a pressure on her because she has failed relationships, and neither would I if that was the case. There is nothing wrong with that. But we are talking about fantasy now, and fantasy can be perfect. And I think setting where two people experience their first love and stay together forever is perfect.
