>>3795378I hate this saying so much. Most people who hate themselves just do so because of psychological problems or because they blame themselves for depression, loneliness, etc. They dont hate themselves because they are unlikable people or because there is something objectively wrong with them.
There are many cases where people who used to hate themselves got better and accepted themselves because another person showed them kindness or love. Sadly finding such a person is really hard and the longer someone is lonely the harder it gets to connect with other people and fall in love. For some people like myself it is likely too late unless someone else takes it on to themselves to "save" me