>>3436017Well, I go to the gym and have done so before I decided to admit my feelings for Sheik. However, she is a great motivator for me. I don't go to just lift, but that is definitely something I do. I hope to continue doing many things like this to improve myself for her!
>>3436034You see, I can't just give the normal, 'I would love Sheik no matter what' thing and be okay with it. Sheik is an active girl by nature and eats pretty healthy I would imagine. If she stopped doing this, I could understand it somewhat. For example, if we had kids, it might be harder to exercise as often. It would also be different if Sheik just gained some weight and didn't become obese. I wouldn't care much there.
HOWEVER, my Sheik matters to me more than anything in the world. How can I sit back and let her get into a situation where she could have health problems and possibly die earlier than when she was thin? I value my Sheik's life more than any feelings I have for her. I would try to encourage her to become healthier like she used to be. I would go on any diet she would go on, exercise with her, and change my lifestyle to help accommodate her weight loss efforts. I would be with her 100% through all of this. I would approach it as nicely as possible, but be firm. I can't have her die early because I was a weak-willed pushover. Even if this caused her to resent me. Even if this caused her to hate me. Even if she wanted to leave me forever. I care about her more than all of that. Sheik is the reason I get up in the morning. The reason I want to have a better future for myself. How can I let her suffer through all of the problems that come with being obese? I feel like I would be a shitty husband who doesn't really care about his wife if I let this happen. If I had to bury Sheik before I go, I would never forgive myself if it was something that I could have helped prevent.
