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She may not be something that concerns the planning part of his head, but including her at times IS a part of a self-expression process here.
He's just got a weird relationship with writing her
(Which, hilariously, includes insisting that "poka poka" was her own idea XD)
You could (well, at least theoretically, this being EVA after all), of course, just watch the anime and understand everything without ever doing a google search (You can do even withouit the CI if you look closely at ep 21 and the lines about "identical artificial structures! - ) but external statements can serve as a swift and helpfull clarification, especially when you're uncertain about something or someone claims they found the exact opposite thing to your conclusion every bit as self-evident, which happens alot on this world...