>>2906366It's very simple.
Asuka is a feminazi cunt, literally only loved by submissive cucks. No man with self-respect will ever want her.
Rei on the other hand is much closer to representation of traditional woman with genuinely feminine Yin energy. Desired by true men, hated by jelly feminists and cucks. Anno belongs to the latter, that's why he wants to throw dirt at her image.