>>2190672what i do for this is use photo tagging software like daminion or lightroom to create an easily searchable database that lets you find pictures based on multiple criteria.
of course, the pain in the ass part is going through every single picture you have and assigning keywords to each one.
>>2190687and what i do for this is use a metadata editor like filemenu tools to change the last modified date so that 'good' pictures have a recent date and lewd/heartbreaking ones have an old date, so that when sorted by date modified, 'good' pictures appear first.