>>4418382That's just the way Misato's personality is in NGE
When all goes well, she acts like this caring cheerful big sister
but when things gets tough, and the kids are having trouble killing angels, she starts get cold and distant
For example, when Gendo gave the iconic"pilot or get lost" quote, she follows
After Kaji's murder, she was busy going after the culprit and seele's secrects, so when Asuka is having a mental breakdown, she just watch
When Shinji mourns Kawaru, she just said he chose death and gets what he deserved