>>1951053He has issues modulating v-brakes, or his v-brakes are too strong.
Thus he claims hydraulic v-brakes are too strong since they will be even worse at modulation.
Me? I have ridden at 150lbs all the way up to 230lbs.All the time my shimano xt v-brakes were easy to modulate when mountain biking. If anything 203+mm hydraulic disk brakes are the abrupt brakes, but those should be used for heavier riders or downhill/high speed descents.
If someone has issues modulating they should try riding more and getting used to the brakes, or being gentler on the lever.
For disk you can use organic pads, or get a smaller rotor.
For rims you could probably get shorter levers or just use one finger to brake.
Where I live we have hills + crowded bike trails so good brakes are nice.