>>2785485other people are unreliable.
when you become an adult you find out that your school friends were only friends because you were forced on the same playground and both were bored to tears.
now people do either/both:
go to college and move away meaning your friendship is only digital
dedicate their life to the worship of a screen playing hunter: breath of the wild then joining you
family is best shot whether you have one or make one. frens are convenience. you're blessed if you have good neighbors. maybe in idaho or in a time machine.