>>4277591What people don't get is that a lot of straight people (men especially) are just disgusted by gay and trans stuff. Not afraid of it, not even necessarily morally opposed to it, I really do mean just physically disgusted by it like you would be to food you can't stand.
"Both" sides fail to understand this. The side that is just a-ok with all of it and finds it pretty, thinks its deep personal failing for anyone else to NOT find it pretty.
The side that is against it, tends to mistake their own wordless, nameless, revulsion to it for the mandate of heaven.
Not everyone shares the gene that made some of our ancestors feel the need to ruthlessly cull their tribe of non-breeders in order to keep the population numbers up.
And not everyone shares the gene that made some of our ancestors feel the need to collect non-breeders in your village to do the jobs for the tribe that are harder to do when you have a family of your own. Or whatever. I'm not a scientist, but it's something that ancient.
Both need to accept that not everybody likes the same things.