>>10790010>>Had hoarding in my family>>Mom was concerned I'd develop it>>Forced to donate all my old shitLol, the funny thing is, this exact behavior creates hoarding. That intense feeling of betrayal stays with people
My mom is a hoarder now and it all goes back to my mom being 8 and coming home from school and all her toys being destroyed in the yard because her mother let her delinquent cousins play with her toys. They were poor and she only had a few and it just did something to her to see her few toys all broken laying in the yard.
On the flip side, you always hear about neat freaks that had a hoarding parent that made the home unliveable.
It just cycles back and forth, neither having any idea what normal is.