>>35055094We've lived a similar life after my mother passed, when my father got a midlife crisis in his head to BE the sugar daddy. (Thankfully that person is out of the picture now.)
Paying for all that shit is a nightmare, repairs are hell -- is there any insurance? When our roof fell in, we were able to cover some of the cost with an insurance claim... and then another one when our bathroom floor fell in (this house is like 80 years old.) I understand if there's no one around to help, but research what is available to you and take what you can get. The services are there for a reason. I really hope things work out for you, anon.