>>53245550there are discord threads, but I skim through a lot of posts looking for guys who live in my city and want a relationship instead of a hookup. I offered my own discord twice, but one time I was completely ignored, the other time had people insulting me for being a “whore” because I wasn’t interested in sex on the first date.
>>53245540if it’ll make you feel better, I haven’t been to r9k in a few weeks. Casual misogyny is something to be wary about, yeah, but the number one red flag imo is when they want you to take care of their needs while ignoring your own needs.
>straight loserI’m bi actually, but I want my first time to be with a guy. Or is this a dumb thing to be picky about?
