>>52717097Yeah thats rough. I've certainly known crowds that are more harsh to standing out. The people I hang out with, and the people in my area couldn't give less of a crap what I wear other than merely admiring it for a moment before continuing with conversation.
And yes, the opposite for me. If I'm boring or I don't stand out. LITERALLY nobody notices me or cares. It's only when I make the effort, do people actually like me and get to know me.
I don't begrudge you anything. I can see as you said we come from very different walks of life, and I wish you the best.