>>49979544You just don't like hearing what I have to say because it doesn't agree with your own viewpoint, and you see it as a threat and attack to yourself because its a differing viewpoint.
What good do you think empathy has towards the suicidal other than having it used against you for pity parties asspats or having it broken right in front of you that regardless of how much you've cared and tried and reassured the other person, they are so selfish and set in their ways to actually go through with their intentions?
Its why you never give a single crumb, not the slightest amount of love to a suicidal person, because if they are truly suicidal? No amount of help from you is going to help them, you can tell them it'll break your heart, that they will killing a part of you when they go through with it, and yet, they are still obsessed and focused on their plans that they do so anyway, leaving you the empty jackass holding the bag and you having to bury them. So really, what good comes from being nice about someone who is saying "I'm going to hurt you by hurting myself?" I see it as an unsolicited threat, more often shouted as a means for attention, than it is an actual intention.
Take for instance Sam here, do you really think he wants to commit suicide? No. Sam is looking for someone, anyone to stop him. To reassure him, to get some form of escapism from the situation that he finds himself in. He's looking for someone to pick himself up, rather than picking himself up and living under his own strength. If Sam wanted to commit suicide, he would've done so without telling strangers, and even if he is still going to, no amount of asspats or sympathies from us will change his mind from doing so. So, again, what is the point? Its better to smack these people and tell them to get the fuck up and start moving, or to unironically stop talking about their problems and actually act upon them.
Its me telling them to stop being pussies about life and death.
