>>28101049I don't know about incapable but certainly unwilling.
I complain about it because I thought it would be a phase, from the very beginning she was the meek submissive type and I wanted her to outgrow it over time and come out of shell so to speak. Instead she doubled down on it, she became convinced that we were meant to be together and turned into a complete doormat, and the scary thing is that enjoys it, she likes being that way, she likes surrendering all control to me and letting me boss her around.
It was awesome at first, it got boring real quick, then it got unbearable. I've dumped her time after time after time, and time after time after time she came back until I finally just gave up and resigned myself to her. Take my ramblings as an old man yelling to a cloud.
And yes I do like to brag a bit about it, to my friends and to the lonely weebs of this site that think "it would so fucking awesome to have a girlfriend like Hinata, senpai kawaii desu desu". It's fun to remind them that the thing they want so much isn't as fun in real life.