>>37429303>voreThere's a really big dom/sub dynamic, as you've seen in this thread, and a lot of unwilling vore plays that up to the max. But for willing and cozy vore, there's an additional comfort thing of being surrounded completely by a trusted friend, lulled to sleep by their heartbeat or breath as they hold you securely in a warm, dark, intimate way. Or, for stuff like unbirth and cockvore, it plays off of musk fetish and cock/pussy worship sort of things, in addition to giving the "sub" a small bit of power over their dom in the form of a truly wondrous level of pleasure.
Personally, I find pleasure in both roles, but prefer a much gentler and nonlethal pred to eat me than what I tend to be when I've got a nice, squirmy meal in front of me. Dunno how much of that is influenced by the type of prey I talk to, though.
It's a really, really varied fetish; to adapt an old Jewish joke, you could probably ask 3 voraphiles and get 4 different answers.