>>42400510I went through the same gripes when I was younger, anon. Believe me when I say that what you want is nearly impossible to find in mass produced media, but ultimately that's okay. You should create your own fantasies instead of relying on others to generate them for you.
Of course, you have to define what exactly you want out of your companions/harem members if you're going to create your own fantasies. An analogy I like to use is one where you're kidnapped by someone very large and very angry and dragged around for a time before being let loose near a pail of water. The other person makes alien jabbering noises and points to the pail of water near you, and when you don't reply because you don't understand him he kicks you in the mouth with his boot. The second time this happens you pick up the pail and bring it to him in hopes you won't be attacked, and this time he makes different jabbering noises and walks off with the pail instead of attacking you. Is this roughly the level of intellect you desire, i.e. can associate words, even ones you don't personally understand or ones you can't even form, with desired actions and events?
