>>27838750Generic fat/ugly does not prevent real relationships, buddy, just makes them less attractive.
Typically people in weeb community try to avoid conflict, kinda just a reaction to the whole outcast mentality they get from the "real" world where their interests were probably made fun of and caused them to be excluded during the school years. So, when they find themselves as adults or whatever bullshit, they try to be incredibly inclusive and never want to make anyone feel bad, as they did. Not to WANT to use buzzwords, but think of your generic tumblrite. Conflict and disagreement is heavily looked down upon when it comes to serious matters. In the end, what this causes is that they retreat from emotional problems, and try to ignore yours. Pretending that problems don't exist makes them go away, is the mindset. These kinds of relationships usually start out amazing, you have a lot of similar interests, can do anything together, and the sex is fucking great because there's a LOT of it. Having been an outcast when your peers were going to parties/drinking/sleeping around makes you NOT want to do those things, so when they finally enter a relationship it's just a lot of pent-up sexual aggression. Seriously. It's great. Never had better sex. After a couple months though, as the relationship slides into something more serious and maybe you're trying to figure out how long you want to try to make this work and there's whatever conflicts you have (maybe a LDR trying to move closer, or resolving old conflicts with family), they back away from these problems and never attempt to fix them.
Now, if you really love this girl a lot, you'll go one of two routes. Try to help them even if they don't want it, or just wait for them to get through it themselves. I personally think the former is better, as I dislike running away from emotional problems between people, but my awesome relationship went from 10/10 to up in flames pretty quickly so maybe I'm just retarded.
