>>28761418She doesn't needs to say it, if she started acting weird after flying away and got mad when you got there after waiting a shitton of time to be with you then it's clear she doesn't wants YOU to see something in her there.
And if it started when she flew away it's pretty obvious what it is, also socially awkward/anti social people are extremely easy to take advantage of and boss around, but they're also really scared of backlash so of course she won't tell you.
As someone that went through shit like this years ago, grow out of your social problems, and no, finding someone with the same stuff is not a plus.
First rule of a healthy relation is knowing how to love yourself, or the relation is bound to end up one sided with shitton of issues and constant problems, with the eventual one sided breakup.
