>>30435987Men and women are fundamentally different. Chastity and loyalty are much more innately valuable in a woman than they are in a man just on account of the differences in reproductive method (IE, a woman never has to doubt whether a child is hers, a man does and therefore must ensure that his woman is of good character or within his control, at the very least). On the other hand, male traits that are the polar opposite of nice guy are inherently superior if they're coupled with intelligence - women consistently find dark triad traits attractive and this is for good reason; a man that's willing to lie, cheat and manipulate to get his way is very likely to be an excellent provider if they have the IQ to execute properly.
As far as hapu not being attractive, fair enough. The eyebrows are almost a deal breaker for me, too, but that just requires a little cosmetic maintenance to resolve.