>>37194144>People will have to cope with the fact that character and identity are far more important than what biological sex you were grafted with at birth.And undergoing gender reassignment surgery is just as much of a part of your character identity as, say, preferring tea to coffee.
>Why is that your partners business?If they want to start a family/have sex with you and you're sterile or you haven't had your bottom surgery, they would rightfully feel misled.
>Do you need to tell your partner everything about your identity?Yes. It doesn't matter what it is. If you plan to spend the rest of your life with that person, it's going to come up at some point.
>Treating identity as important information is by all means just a way to alienate people.And hiding it is just going to make people want to alienate you more. Nobody's going to pull you aside and kill you on the spot because they think you're trans.
>Girls are girls, how fucking twisted is it that some girls have to limit their dating options just because people are generally nosy"How fucking twisted is it that women have preferences!? Why won't they date me?" That's how you sound.
>>37194159If I thought my potential significant other was some sort of bigot I'd tell them to see other people before things got serious. It's not rocket science.
Why go through all the effort of emotionally manipulating someone and choosing to be with them for an extended period of time if you're afraid that they'd kill you? Is the sex that good? Is the novelty of saying you're in a relationship really worth an ever-looming fear of death?
>>37194247It's bold of you to assume your potential SO didn't suffer some sort of abuse or trauma in their life. Bigoted people aren't as frothing at the mouth as you'd think, but lying to them is a surefire way to make things worse.
I know that other guy said that you guys are just trolling, but I really think you guys have just never been in a meaningful relationship before.
