>>42965169>How is that not how it works?Let's say I date a guy - I'm attracted to him and want to be with him. That very obviously makes me gay, right?
But, for whatever reason, it doesn't work out and we break up. Some time later, I date a girl and we end up married.
Am I suddenly straight because I'm married to a woman even though I previously dated a gay? What if I fap to guys? What if I have a threesome with my wife and another guy, specifically having gay sex with him?
Sexuality isn't just a switch that turns on and off depending on who you're with.
