>>46834955It’s just a mentality; in a way showing a different side of yourself with someone you’re comfortable being intimate with. Doesn’t even have to be something sexual either. Granted, like
>>46834978says, you can get lazy fucking people; but the same goes for a dom that just barks out orders and puts no effort into it.
Conversely I can’t understand wanting to dominate because I’d feel like a goof and not take myself seriously doing it or be too afraid of injuring the other person. Being dominated, I go into a whole headspace which is hard to describe but feels natural. No idea why or how, but that’s how it is.
But yes, there are a lot of lazy assholes on both sides
