>>48204776one way to think about is it the things that straight men tend to think of as disgusting, or things that give them the most visceral reaction, are things that are actually attractive to a lot of straight women and gay men. a lot of straight men spiral into depression and become incels when they realize this. we don't have to be incels tho, we can all have a mutual respect for what gets us off.
and yeah, femboys and pop groups like bts are also attractive, but for different reasons. it's like, you can enjoy ice cream, and you can enjoy steak, and liking one or the other doesn't mean the other isn't also delicious. maybe you don't want ice cream right now, maybe you just really want that steak. or maybe you really are craving some liver and onions. hopefully the food analogy suffices
