>>56796668For me, it's mostly about the confidence, I guess? Clumsy way of putting it, but, gonna work with it.
It's like, there's a certain kind of, momentum, to someone like that, that I can feel safe in to not have to worry about stuff so much. Like, a safe, enveloping pocket of sorta "getting pulled along" where it feels like I don't have to be so on guard and responsible, and everything is going to be okay. It's not really so much the "bad guy" as it is the "I'm doing my thing, wanna come?" feeling of it. Which, maybe that's weird, since they're y'know, grunts, people following orders, but, it still feels like that.
Maybe that's right, maybe that's wrong, but that's the feeling, anyways. And for me, that alleviation of needing to worry about is what's nice. I don't have to worry about maintaining things, or try to read what he wants, he'll just tell me. If he pulls me aside and puts his tongue down my throat, I don't need to worry about what he wants, what he wants me to want, or what he thinks I think he wants, I just think about tongue down my throat and feeling good. If he wants me to dress in something he likes, I don't need to worry about what I should dress like, and it's also kinda nice that I get to do something exciting, and not have to worry so much about how I look, because it's what he wants.
Probably doesn't make much sense, but, maybe you can pull something from it.
