>>35435139It does feel a little off sometimes being attracted to her because she is so much like a teenager in personality. I don't feel all that bad about it though because Ephebophilia shouldn't really be considered a paraphilia unless you as an older person actively pursue relations with those in that age range with exploitative, devious intent -plenty of cases where younger people fall in Love with older partners who treat them with respect and dignity too- and I don't feel bad expressing healthy attraction towards her anonymously because if I did meet her irl: I'd just have fun and play music for her and let her do what she wants, not creep on her because I separate if I feel desire towards someone from how I interact with them and just focus on being chill and amicable.
