>>1748299As a former victim of bullying, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. Because it will happen whether I want it to or not. It is a necessity of society. Not actual murder, rape, or extreme bullying, but your stereotypical American bully who goes home to a messed up family.
They are an important hurdle for all 'unique' men to cross. If your intelligence leads you to being autistic or an asshole you need to either wise up or become more autistic/stronger. Either the path you're on can overcome such people or you need to get off it, if one jackass can stop you completely.
I don't know Kiara's past or how girl's bully each other, and some bullying obviously falls on the extreme and unwarranted side, but my bully ended up making me a better person. From my understanding she still resents her former peers -- on the other hand I surpassed my bully by standing up for myself and eventually receiving a meek olive branch from him, one I accepted with the maturity to understand his situation and his own character development.
Maturity is understanding you're not perfect and everybody else has their own imperfections as well as beneficial qualities. When you can see this even in people you're against you gain a shit ton. A bad man is the teacher of a good man.
And yes, I'm well aware how autistic this all sounds. I'm aware of most of the negative qualities that can be ascribed to both the content and poster of this. Again, maturity is knowing your own imperfection and becoming aware of it so that you may respond in a better manner than in ignorance.