>>>40009008>What would you suggest to a virgin who can't even insert 2 fingers down there?Assuming you're female and that not being able to insert is caused by embarrassment or it feeling too foreign, stick to external vibrators - you don't need a magic wand straight out of the gate, try a low priced basic bullet vibrator and see how you feel. Don't put it directly onto the skin at first, use it through underwear, or even through thin clothing like leggings if that's still too close.
Remember, you don't have to cum - it's okay if you don't, don't pressure yourself into trying to force an orgasm, it won't work. Just spend time learning what makes you feel good and what you enjoy doing, the rest will follow naturally. Insertion is easier after an orgasm too as your muscles relax and you'll be lubricated, so then is the ideal time to try. If it doesn't work still, don't worry about it, these things take time.
However, if you feel like your vagina is "clamping" or otherwise far too tight or painful against your will, that is not something I can advise on - you need to see a doctor for that. It's a surprisingly common issue and can be remedied.
Good luck, my sister. I wish you love and pleasure in the new year, as well as everyone else here.