>>29651701>Missing the point. With streamers, you have some insight about their personalities and can pick the ones you like. With randos, it's a complete crapshoot.No it's the same with streamers as their also randos that not only are pretending but you will never see outside of the context of a stream.
With a real life person to form a relationship first you must get to know them best way to to do that is befriend them or share a hobby or work or something then you put the time investment to get to know them in different contexts the time investment is not so different than watching a stream except your actually participating with this person, and eventually you decide if this person in worth pursuing, dropping, or just keeping around cause their alright and can be used to meet new people, I know things can go wrong and you may get emotionally hurt but that's simply the thing about life just by existing you will be hurt no matter what you do or try to avoid it so you might aswell try to get something good whilst being hurt than doing nothing and still being hurt.
However I must also add their are often clear warning signs about people who will screw you over as soon as any red-flag pops up Don't be afraid to fuck off and find someone else or give up on that person as there's alot of people in this world to pick from, I'm pretty sure you know all kinds of redflags from browsing this place.