>>28620795>Picking an oshi is kind of an investment>reasonable to meI feel like this is too schizo for me. If she wants to change then you have no say in it. You have no say in whatever she wants to do with her life. You can support her with donations, subscriptions, shilling her where you want, and participating in events she sets up.
If she wants to start attending cons, then she will attend cons, how she will do it is her choice. I genuinely don't understand what's the big deal about it.