>>33524472You're a schizo, but I'll bite. Dunno how you plan on actually meeting her, but my advice? You want to help? Really help? Don't do it to fuck her. Don't make fucking her a goal. Don't even consider it. Don't be a fucking coomer degen pervert. Lord knows there's too many of those in the world, and she's had too many issues with them already. She's not going to fall head-over-heels for you because you're some noble knight in shining armor who solved all her problems and made everything perfect. That's not how life works. You want to help? Don't force it. Don't expect it to go smoothly, or quickly. You're never going to "fix" her. You can't do that. You can be a friend, and you can try to be a comfort and a refuge when she hurts herself again, but only she can make the choice to try and confront and heal from whatever it is in her that causes this. You're not the hero here, you're not the main character who swoops in and saves the misunderstood princess in her tower. Nothing here is misunderstood. She will hurt you. She will hurt you over and over again. She will lash out at you when she's hurting and tear you down to pull herself up because it's all she knows. Be gentle and forgiving with her, she's hurting herself too, albeit unintentionally, but don't let her destroy you. Don't be a doormat who says yes to every unhealthy thing. Stick up for yourself when you need to. Too harsh? She snaps. Too soft? She stays the same. And if by some miracle this works out, she gets to a better mental place? It won't have been from you. The best case scenario is that you tend to and comfort her throughout the process and encourage her to get better. Unless she notices you first, you won't be the reason she wants to get off her ass, but, hey, you were there along the way. Healing isn't some "everything is perfect now!" miracle. It's her making her bed in the morning, or brushing her teeth, or remembering to eat and sleep. Assuming this isn't bait, which it probably is, the odds of whatever you plan on doing succeeding are incredibly low, you will most likely never cross paths with her. But, if by some series of miracles, you wind up in each other's lives? Just be a friend, that's the best thing you can do.
