>>41096507The thing is if she's a lesbian you can still admire her from afar. She's not directly rejecting you, it's just that you're biologically incompatible. If she's bi it's the same thing, you're not competing with women because they have different biological features. She could be in love with a woman and in love with you at the same time, you could even share eachother and have a threesome.
Meanwhile hetships are just a constant reminder that your oshi chooses other men over you. It's actual cuckoldry to stay in love with a woman when she's actively rejecting you and flaunting how much she wants someone else's dick.