>>45294257nta Not always true. I love the flaws of a person as much as what is conventionally attractive. I believe you can’t love someone if you can’t learn to love their aspects that might make you feel angry or disappointed to a degree, similar to the Japanese concept of wabi-sabi. I believe this because the longest lasting marriages in my family and family friends, are the ones where the husbands and wives both poke fun at each other’s flaws, like my uncle’s 40 year marriage when my aunt was still alive: he would call her a stubborn but loving woman with arms as thick as a sailor’s because she was very fat, and he would call him a pig-headed idiot who drank too much. When he’d feel hurt, he would reduce his drinking and concede to her more often because his love mattered more than his pride or his vices. She knew his intentions were always good even if he was flawed so she’d let him know when he was being a jackass and he’d tone down his less desirable aspects.